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		<title>By: admin</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 23:56:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Cory....You will not get a verbal/written beating from me on any of these lol. They are your opinions..thanks for the in depth feedback and for being so honest. I love your feedback for step 4 and I agree. I simply meant that I try my hardest not to allow people's opinions of me to determine what I do. Plus all of these things are what works for me and may not work for anyone else.
Stay Blessed,
Ally</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Cory&#8230;.You will not get a verbal/written beating from me on any of these lol. They are your opinions..thanks for the in depth feedback and for being so honest. I love your feedback for step 4 and I agree. I simply meant that I try my hardest not to allow people&#8217;s opinions of me to determine what I do. Plus all of these things are what works for me and may not work for anyone else.<br />
Stay Blessed,<br />
Ally</p>
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		<title>By: Cory H.</title>
		<link>http://she-blogs.com/blog/?p=5619#comment-3001</link>
		<dc:creator>Cory H.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 03:13:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My opine:

Step 1
Practice Living In Love - “Am I making this decision out of love?”

my opinion:
Unfortunately the practicality of certain decisions require you to sometimes decide against "love." ex. You may not "love" what your doing as a profession and want to attempt a change. However the fact that the economy is what it is, you may want to make a cognitive, rather than emotive decision.

Step 4
Live Each Day As If It Were Your Last - "Don’t worry about what people think…in fact who really cares what people think."

my opinion:
To a certain degree, you should care what people think. Perception is key; and not just in a business model. Many people have a proclivity of making mistakes and then using "I don't care what people think" as a veil over those mistakes. Think about what you do and the impression that you give off. I'm not saying to conform to certain norms or to dramatically alter your personality; also, don't become an iconoclast just to be a nonconformist. Hopefully this isn't your last day. Live like you have a goal to reach and that you'll be around to reach it. That goal, and intelligence, will leave a positive impression on those around you.


Step 5
Try Not To Judge

my opinion:
Impossible. It's not only the society in which we live, but it could also be human nature to judge. We judge each others political views, intelligence, beauty etc. Don't allow your judgments to become a prejudice or blind you from holistically viewing the situation/person/world etc.

People will rarely say "That's their journey." In the same vein as that suggestion, then we must rid ourselves of offering or giving advice. Since advice is solely based on our own journeys, then they become void to someone else. 

These are just my opinions and I'm sure that I'll take a verbal/written beating on a few, if not all of them. 

-Cory</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My opine:</p>
<p>Step 1<br />
Practice Living In Love - “Am I making this decision out of love?”</p>
<p>my opinion:<br />
Unfortunately the practicality of certain decisions require you to sometimes decide against &#8220;love.&#8221; ex. You may not &#8220;love&#8221; what your doing as a profession and want to attempt a change. However the fact that the economy is what it is, you may want to make a cognitive, rather than emotive decision.</p>
<p>Step 4<br />
Live Each Day As If It Were Your Last - &#8220;Don’t worry about what people think…in fact who really cares what people think.&#8221;</p>
<p>my opinion:<br />
To a certain degree, you should care what people think. Perception is key; and not just in a business model. Many people have a proclivity of making mistakes and then using &#8220;I don&#8217;t care what people think&#8221; as a veil over those mistakes. Think about what you do and the impression that you give off. I&#8217;m not saying to conform to certain norms or to dramatically alter your personality; also, don&#8217;t become an iconoclast just to be a nonconformist. Hopefully this isn&#8217;t your last day. Live like you have a goal to reach and that you&#8217;ll be around to reach it. That goal, and intelligence, will leave a positive impression on those around you.</p>
<p>Step 5<br />
Try Not To Judge</p>
<p>my opinion:<br />
Impossible. It&#8217;s not only the society in which we live, but it could also be human nature to judge. We judge each others political views, intelligence, beauty etc. Don&#8217;t allow your judgments to become a prejudice or blind you from holistically viewing the situation/person/world etc.</p>
<p>People will rarely say &#8220;That&#8217;s their journey.&#8221; In the same vein as that suggestion, then we must rid ourselves of offering or giving advice. Since advice is solely based on our own journeys, then they become void to someone else. </p>
<p>These are just my opinions and I&#8217;m sure that I&#8217;ll take a verbal/written beating on a few, if not all of them. </p>
<p>-Cory</p>
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		<title>By: admin</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 23:40:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeahhh!!! I am so glad you are gonna try to just live...it's so invigorating...keep me posted
xoxo
Ally</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeahhh!!! I am so glad you are gonna try to just live&#8230;it&#8217;s so invigorating&#8230;keep me posted<br />
xoxo<br />
Ally</p>
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		<title>By: amber nicole</title>
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		<dc:creator>amber nicole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Dec 2009 19:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Ally for the wisdom, I really needed that, especially because I'm so self-conscious in a negative way that I make all my decisions based on what other people think. Now I'm not gonna care, I'm living my life. 
Thank you and Merry Christmas!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Ally for the wisdom, I really needed that, especially because I&#8217;m so self-conscious in a negative way that I make all my decisions based on what other people think. Now I&#8217;m not gonna care, I&#8217;m living my life.<br />
Thank you and Merry Christmas!!!!</p>
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